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Christian Relationship Help - How To Face Your Fears In Difficult Relationships
by Karla Downing How can you face your fears in difficult relationships? By answering the questions offered in this Christian relationship help. It isn't unusual to have many fears in difficult relationships. When people are doing things that we find upsetting and are not making responsible choices, things can and do go wrong. The biggest problem that arises from the fear is that it can keep you stuck and unable to make good decisions. Fear is a warning sign that needs to be heeded. You need to be able to evaluate your fears and see how realistic they are so that you can figure out how to respond to them. Evaluate your fears by answering these six questions: 1. What is the root of your fear? Your fear might be related to something specific and tangible or it could be generalized to many things or just an underlying sense of anxiety that really doesn't have a specific root. 2. Is your fear realistic or unrealistic? Look at the probability of your fear happening. If the probability isn't high, then let go of that fear. If it is fairly high, then you will need to pay attention to it. 3. Is it projecting far into the future or are you actually dealing with it today? The fears that you are dealing with today need to be given more attention than the fears that have to do with things that are further into the future. 4. How does your fear affect your decisions and actions? Fear can paralyze you or it can lead you to make hasty and impulsive decisions that make your situation worse. Understand how this fear is affecting you specifically before deciding how you will respond. 5. Can you do anything about it right now? There are some fears you can do something about and others that you are completely unable to do anything about. 6. Are you willing to take necessary action? Determine if you are willing to do what you have decided you need to do and then do it. If you aren't, you need to work on the courage to do it. Relationship Prayer: God, help me to analyze my fears and let go of the ones that I don't need to attend to today. Give me the courage to do what I need to do with the ones that need my immediate attention. Relationship Challenge: Make a list of your fears. Answer the questions about each of them. "A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it" (Proverbs 22:3, NIV). Answer the six questions in this Christian relationship help to learn how to face your fears in your difficult relationships. Next, if you need more practical tips and Biblical truths to help you change your relationships, get my FREE "15-Day Relationship Challenge" designed to give you back the power over your life. Just click here: http://www.Free15dayChallenge.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Article Source: http://www.faithwriters.com |